I get that question a lot. Many times by my children. And Michael often comes back with the witty retort "you just did". That answer seems to baffle our offspring. And annoy me just a little.
Since we adopted Katie Mei we get asked this question, often. Can I ask you a question is usually followed by "well, we are considering adoption and….."
It never ceases to make my heart beat a little more quickly and my breath catches in my throat. I want to clap my hands and jump up and down. But I know that may make the person asking the question a little freaked out. And creeped out. Remember the cellulite.
If you know me- you know that I LOVE talking about adoption. I love hearing the stories of how the families are being led to consider adopting. I love telling the stories of our adoption processes. Once your heart has been touched by the absolute miracle of adoption, you are hooked. You are tuned in to the plight of orphans in the US and all over the world.
I love to hear the concerns, fears and desires of these families as they are praying about, discussing, thinking or in my case, obsessing about whether adoption is right for them and their family. I love easing fears about money, about time with your kids, about loving another child.
I love that people come to us with lists of questions, and while we can't answer every single one, we discuss with them options and people we know who can get them the answers to those questions. I love watching their faces light up when we hit something in their hearts. I love their concerns and their fears, because I know that they are truly considering every aspect of the process and not just falling in love with the process.
It would be really easy for me just to be thankful for the fact that God chose to expand our family by adoption. Then I could sit back and simply enjoy my family and the sweetness of our children. But, I really feel like I have been called to do much more then that. There are over 147 million orphans in the world. 147 MILLION. So. My heart couldn't sit back. Couldn't sit still and simply enjoy.
Truly, we thought we were done with 3. Both Michael and I were totally content. Totally loving our children and their bond. But God had different plans. He once again opened our hearts to adoption. Truly, we both questioned our sanity. And still do. Go back and read some of my posts with my random lists and you too will question my sanity,
With our hearts open, He led us to Lauren. I will tell that story (which is amazing) when we get our RA and can officially share her photo and story with you.
Do I think we are done with 4? I do- but then again, both of us thought we were done at 3. But with 147 million children out there needing forever families, I can't say that. My heart has been touched by the One who has made me His own.
We have been blessed to have been a part of friends who have come with questions and now have children home. These families have children. These children have families. Their lives, on both sides have been inexplicably changed. Amazingly blessed. And forever altered.
So. Can I ask YOU a question? Have you considered opening your home and heart to a child who is in desperate need of a family?
I would encourage you to think about that.
And then, find someone you can ask.
You may get an amazingly wonderful answer.