Today I went to my class at the Y….worked my tail off, literally and went to pick up Katie Mei at childcare. Courtney (aka "apples") and I walked in together to get our girls and all the nice childcare workers were there. I signed Katie Mei out and was commenting on how talented one of the women were, she was feeding one little one a bottle while rocking another. She laughed and we both agreed that being a mom was a multi tasking job.
Fun little conversation. She goes on. "My girl is with her dad on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. This week he has her through Sunday. It is awesome. I have more time to myself now more then ever. (this is the ringer) EVERY MOM SHOULD GET DIVORCED to get more time to herself. " hahahaha, she laughs and then tells me how glad she is to have that "me time". I did not know what to say. Truly. I kinda looked at her and said "oh?" and thankfully Katie and Sarah needed some Purell. And we walked out.
I was kinda floored. Every mom should get divorced so she can have more me time? Wow. Such a total opposite view. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I enjoy a little time away. But NEVER like that. Made me a little sad. Made me realize how wonderful my husband is. And how I love the "we time" we share every day.
no thanks, I much prefer….